Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Leave the Rest to Pi

Last night we were at a friend’s place for dinner. The friends had invited their other friends to check us out. We were still on probation to secure an extended friendship. If we appealed to the other friends, Pi and I could potentially be invited into their inner circle and could be privy to all the local scoop. We would also be laughing at inside jokes like- ‘He is like an orange juice’ that seemed to take the crowd by storm.

So I had obviously hyped up my resume (best cook, best gossip magnet, best social skills etc) to even get an invitation here. I was also at my best behavior- laughing at everything the host said, commenting on their cooking skills, letting them win in a board game. I could see sparkle of approval in the other people’s eyes and a tinge of pride in the host’s. It was going pretty well and this time even I didn’t see it coming.

We had finished eating (which could be taken as a sign) and Pi went on to inquire about this person’s work, trying to make small talk and look positively interested. The guy just started his monologue with genuine passion and just when he was about to launch into further details, Pi’s eyes glazed over and as we all watched, he went off to sleep.

Not sure if we might have to pack up and leave Pittsburgh or live with bad reputation, but I do know one thing. I am pissed! Let me explain why I seem to be over reacting to something perfectly normal as someone sleeping after a good dinner. If there is one thing I would like to acquire from Pi, it would be his sleeping sickness. In close contention were eating disorder, obsessive controlling disorder and a big nose. I already have the big nose, so there!

I am cursed to be a light sleeper and I have known to wake up with a start if someone coughed in Nigeria. I could drink all the warm milk I wanted, use lavender scented eye patches, read History and listen to Chopin…but after a whole hour I would be agonizing over sleep while Pi would be waking up another light sleeper in Nigeria with his snores. I normally end up getting a headache with all that lavender smell and sound effects. It also takes a very patient benevolent soul like me to ward away any murderous thoughts during these trying times. It would be still fine with me if Pi needed some sort of ambience to drift off to sleep- soothing music, dimly lit room, a rocking bed, nagging wife… something that would validate the act. My hubby can sleep like a baby the minute his head hits something soft like the granite kitchen counter top. His claim to fame is sleeping at a rock concert in IIT (Sarang), next to speakers no less.

So it probably shouldn’t come as a shock when I tell you he drifts off mid-sentence when we have guests at home. Now it wouldn’t worry me under normal circumstances. It definitely seems fair enough to show displeasure when the aforementioned guest happens to be his most annoying friend, who could potentially be the reason why he has developed this trait in the first place. The friend takes this as a sign from Pi and makes himself comfortable, insisting on sharing his escapades with me… all night long (emphasizing the ‘long’).

Obviously last night was not a lone incident. Pi has dozed off in other people’s houses, sometimes in their couch in sitting position (if they are lucky), or sometimes in their master bed in diagonal sleeping position (if they are unlucky). “So, this is your new bed, eh? Let me see if it feels comfor…..zzzzzzz… Snoooooorrrrrreeee… burrrrr… brrrrroooom… vrrrrooom”… and very soon he launches off the alien mating calls.

Here’s one more disturbing fact. None of our friends have shown any concern or disapproval. They are either too polite (remember we are talking about my friends) or pretty pleased to get Pi out of the way. Personally, I shall take that as a compliment, thank you!

15 comments:

Me said...

rotfl...too funny..

Couple of months back our friends got a big screen TV & comfy couch...we were invited for dinner...after that they switched on the TV...something like discovery channel.. we don't remember anything after the first few mts...both of us slept...the paavam hosts tried different things to wake us up....finally they switched off the TV & we woke up...:)

...need i say we became really popular after that...:)

Alpha said...

Me: haha! Both of you??! two much wonly! good fo rthem, it didnt happen when they were talking to you.

bloghopper said...

Nothing personal .. but this post bored me to zzzzzzzzz !

Me said...

...that happens too...but usually happens in our home...most of the times it is just me...usually it goes like...yeah yeah yes...head nodding..ZZzzz..

..to keep me awake my wife started playing movies....but we both end up sleeping...:)

Alpha said...

bh: Got back at you. look at the title. haha!

me: jeez! So pi is not the only old man I know...the way you casually put it, it seems like society has learnt to accept this.

Anonymous said...

Andy ka kya hua. Mountain kabhi chadtees tu? Naye friends mubarak ho!!

Zoheb said...

Previous commentor, Zoheb

Alpha said...

zo, tum jyaada hi peeche pad gaye yaar. mountain in feb..paisa diya?
andy gaya tel lene.

NAPP said...

Hey!!!this is Vintage Alpha ....
Hilarious!!!

Karan said...

i take a break from my book... and its Pi again! happen to be reading 'Life of Pi'! :)
i feel for poor pi... first you'd take him to task in person... and then i'm guessing he also has to read his escapades being discussed on ur blog! :)

Ravages/CC said...

OK. One thing I want to know - what do people mean by "Vintage" alpha?
Alpha != wine, folks. Also, Alpha != old. (One assumes...) Only Pi seems old, and that too only taking this post into consideration.

OK. Sermon over. Adulations begin. Awesome post, Alpha.

Alpha said...

napp: thanks man...going by ravages' anology, mmm...

karan: he's like paris hilton... anything for publicity.

ravages: I think what he means by vintage is, like wine i grow better with age.

Me said...

whoa..a reply to comments at 5:40 AM..alpha..u definitely suffer from insomnia...

Alpha said...

we haven't fixed the daylight savings! It was 6.40 definitely! but then, it's well and good.

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